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Remote control vibrators that let your partner control your pleasure
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Fancy getting a bit kinky? Then a remote control vibrator or remote control sex toy could be just the thing. There’s a huge range of these toys available – from butt plugs and egg vibrators that make for kinky power play accessories, to cock rings, strap-ons, and couple’s toys that are perfect for adventurous partner play or long-distance fun. There are also remote control bullet vibes which you can use with a partner or play with solo, if you’re after a hands-free masturbation sesh. So many options!
Just like with vibrating knickers, the beauty of a remote control vibrator is that it is an opportunity to surrender control of your pleasure to a partner, letting them choose the vibration strength and pattern. For you, it’s a chance to switch off and enjoy the ride while for them it can be a thrill to take charge of what you feel and when.
However, as with any sexual activity that involves power play, make sure to negotiate safe words, hard limits and consent before you get started experimenting with a remote control vibrator. A safe word is an agreed upon word that, once uttered, signals that sexual activity being attempted between you and a partner(s) needs to stop immediately. Safe words tend to be words that wouldn’t crop up normally in sex play: fruits like “pineapple” and colours such as “red” are common. Hard limits are pre-agreed no-gos that your partner(s) should not attempt during sex play.
And now that all of that has been covered, without further ado we give you: the best remote control vibrators to try solo or with a partner(s)...
Best remote control vibrators
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